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2018-10-16T19:49:23.970Z| vcpu-0| I125: TOOLS Received tools.set.version rpc call, version = 10252, setting type to 1 from guest OS
2018-10-16T19:49:23.970Z| vcpu-0| I125: Tools_SetVersionAndType did nothing; new tools version (10252) and type (1) match old Tools version and type
2018-10-16T19:49:23.970Z| vcpu-0| I125: TOOLS refreshing value for isoImageExists (refreshCount=1, lastCount=0).
2018-10-16T19:49:24.060Z| vcpu-0| I125: ToolsISO: Updated cached value for imageName to 'winPreVista.iso'.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.060Z| vcpu-0| I125: ToolsISO: Selected Tools ISO 'winPreVista.iso' for 'winXPPro' guest.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.060Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Selected Tools ISO 'winPreVista.iso' for 'winXPPro' guest.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.075Z| vcpu-0| I125: TOOLS updated cached value for isoImageExists to 0.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.075Z| vcpu-0| I125: VMware ESX did not ship with the tools ISO.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.075Z| vcpu-0| I125: TOOLS Setting autoupgrade-checked TRUE.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.194Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Failed to get realpath for '/usr/lib/vmware/isoimages/winPreVista.iso' (error=2)
2018-10-16T19:49:24.194Z| worker-2102789| I125: GetHostManifests: Extracting the manifest file.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.312Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Failed to get realpath for '/usr/lib/vmware/isoimages/winPreVista.iso' (error=2)
2018-10-16T19:49:24.336Z| worker-2102789| I125: Error getting host tools manifest files.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.336Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Refreshing imageName for 'winXPPro' (refreshCount=1, lastCount=1).
2018-10-16T19:49:24.372Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Updated cached value for imageName to 'winPreVista.iso'.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.372Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Selected Tools ISO 'winPreVista.iso' for 'winXPPro' guest.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.406Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Failed to get realpath for '/usr/lib/vmware/isoimages/winPreVista.iso' (error=2)
2018-10-16T19:49:24.406Z| worker-2102789| I125: GetHostManifests: Extracting the manifest file.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.430Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsISO: Failed to get realpath for '/usr/lib/vmware/isoimages/winPreVista.iso' (error=2)
2018-10-16T19:49:24.441Z| worker-2102789| I125: Error getting host tools manifest files.
2018-10-16T19:49:24.441Z| worker-2102789| I125: Using ToolsMinVersion = 8193
2018-10-16T19:49:24.441Z| worker-2102789| I125: ToolsVersionGetStatusWorkerThread: Tools status 2 derived from environment
2018-10-16T19:49:24.441Z| vmx| I125: TOOLS using cached value 0 for isoImageExists (refreshCount=1, lastCount=1).
2018-10-16T19:49:24.441Z| vmx| I125: VMXVmdb_SetToolsVersionStatus: status value set to 'ok', 'supportedOld', install impossible
Now i uploaded the 5 winPreVista files to "/usr/lib/vmware/isoimages" and now the VM don't prompt for a update...
So this will be a workaround....